A conversation about Borderline Personality Disorder (with Kayla Spicer)
1. Advocate for Decriminalization
Support the decriminalization of sex work, as it increases sex workers’ negotiating power, makes healthcare more accessible, and reduces vulnerabilities to violence and exploitation by allowing them to operate legally and report crimes.
2. Provide Accessible Healthcare
To effectively reduce sexually transmitted infections (STIs) among sex workers, make healthcare services, including clinics, testing, and prevention, easily accessible, as sex workers are more likely to use these resources when not criminalized.
3. Feminist Alliance with Sex Workers
Feminists should actively stand with sex workers, protecting their platforms for information exchange and work, as this directly supports reproductive health, access to contraception, and women’s rights broadly.
4. Shift Perspective on Sex Work
When considering sex work, move beyond concerns about individual vulnerability and recognize that sex workers have historically and currently contribute to every community, acknowledging their humanity and agency.
5. Acknowledge Inevitability of Sex Work
Understand that sex work cannot be eliminated, only made less safe through criminalization; therefore, focus on policies that prioritize safety and autonomy rather than eradication.
6. Screen Potential Clients
If you are an independent sex worker, ask potential clients for the name and contact information of other sex workers they’ve seen to gather feedback and screen for safety.
7. Verify Client Identity
Before an appointment, confirm the client’s identity by checking their ID and verifying their employment or ties to the community to ensure the reference checks are valid for that person.
8. Inform a Trusted Contact
Before entering a client’s space, call a friend in front of the client to let them know your location, who you’re with, and when to expect to hear from you, enhancing personal safety.