Heaven and hell on earth: a trip to the limits of human consciousness (with Anthony David Adams)
1. Embrace Daily Challenges
Orient your life to embrace daily challenges, uncertainty, and the ‘miniature deaths’ of ego with curiosity. This daily practice can prime you to surrender into the awe of death and work in service of your deeper values.
2. Recode Fear as Excitement
Recognize that the physiological responses to intense fear and excitement can be the same. Consciously relabel your fear as excitement to enable different, more effective actions, similar to how champion athletes approach high-stakes situations.
3. Never Let Fear Stop You
Adopt the heuristic that fear should never prevent you from doing something valuable. Instead, view fear as an additional reason to pursue a valuable action, recognizing it as a ‘gatekeeper of opportunity.’
4. Transmute Challenging Emotions
Practice an ‘alchemical process’ by containing challenging emotions like sadness, grief, or anger (the ’lead’) without stuffing them down or projecting them. Add ‘fire’ (e.g., breathwork) to transmute these into inspiration and reconnect with your authentic self.
5. Surrender to Terrifying Experiences
When facing intense fear or terror, especially during altered states of consciousness or overwhelming emotions, surrender into the experience rather than resisting it. This can lead to deeper states of consciousness, resolution, and the release of anxiety.
6. Reframe Psychosis as Regeneration
Consider psychosis as a natural biological mechanism for the brain to regenerate a more updated default mode network, similar to a lobster molting its shell. This perspective suggests that these experiences, when supported, can lead to clarity, confidence, and connection to purpose.
7. Integrate Internal Voices
If experiencing internal voices or ‘psychotic’ states, reframe them as parts of yourself that want to help, rather than as scary demons to be suppressed. Acknowledge and integrate these parts to transform a terrifying experience into a manageable one.
8. Support Psychosis with Empathy
When supporting someone in a ‘psychotic’ state, join them in their reality and acknowledge their emotional experience without judgment or fear. This empathetic approach, similar to a healthy caregiver, can help them process and integrate their experience.
9. Address Basic Needs for Anxiety
When experiencing low-level fear or anxiety, especially after intense social or stimulating periods, check basic needs like sleep, food, and water. Addressing these foundational elements can help regulate the nervous system and reduce misfiring pattern recognition.
10. Find Meaning in Pain
Understand that ‘pain without meaning is suffering,’ and by finding a way to bring meaning to painful experiences, they can transform from suffering into manageable pain. This reframing allows for growth and resolution.
11. Explore Oxytocin for Healing (Caution)
Research and potentially experiment with nebulized oxytocin, which has shown promise in reducing grief and anxiety by shifting the nervous system from sympathetic to parasympathetic engagement. Note: This is highly experimental, and the speaker advises caution and further research.
12. Seek Support for Altered States
If you find yourself in challenging altered states of consciousness or ‘psychotic’ experiences, seek out experienced therapists or coaches who can hold space and guide you through the process without judgment. This support is crucial for integration and resolution.