Is evolutionary psychology just a bunch of "just so" stories? (with Geoffrey Miller)
1. Leverage Evolutionary Psychology for Self-Improvement
Understand evolutionary psychology, including instincts for status-seeking and virtue signaling, to gain freedom from societal pressures like consumerism and improve your life to be healthier, happier, and wiser.
2. Invest in Mating-Relevant Traits
Dedicate at least 10% as much effort to improving your mating-relevant traits as you do to your education and career, as many attractive traits are actionable and can be cultivated with effort.
3. Cultivate Actionable Attractive Traits
Focus on improving “low-hanging fruit” traits that enhance attractiveness, such as dressing better, developing a better fashion sense, getting in shape, cultivating a sense of humor, improving specific skills (singing, drawing), getting better at sex, getting better at conversation, and refining vocal timbre.
4. Seek Radically Honest Feedback
Cultivate friends, ideally of the opposite sex if straight, who are capable of radical honesty, and ask them for specific feedback on your behavior to identify areas for improvement.
5. Frame Feedback as a Favor
When requesting feedback, frame it as a favor to the person providing it, emphasizing your genuine desire to improve, which can encourage more honest and helpful critique.
6. Build Trust for Honest Feedback
Be patient when seeking feedback, starting with a few key points, and then demonstrate that you value and act on the input to build trust for more honest and actionable advice in the future.
7. Consider Ex-Lover Feedback
Though challenging, consider reaching out to ex-lovers for feedback on past mistakes or behaviors that were off-putting, as this can provide valuable insights for future relationships.
8. Pause Advanced AI Research
Advocate for or support a temporary moratorium on advanced AI research, particularly towards Artificial General Intelligence (AGI), until the complexities of AI safety and alignment are much better understood.
9. Adopt Long-Term AI Perspective
Approach AI development with caution and prudence, prioritizing the well-being of future generations over short-term profits or rapid capabilities development, even if it takes centuries.
10. Support Narrow AI, Be Wary of AGI
Support the development of beneficial narrow AI applications (e.g., in biomedical research) that offer significant benefits with minimal risk, but remain very wary of pursuing Artificial General Intelligence (AGI) or Artificial Super Intelligence (ASI).
11. Integrate Behavioral Science in AI Safety
For those in AI safety, actively push behavioral science insights into discussions, especially regarding the full diversity and complexity of human values that AI systems need to align with.
12. Acknowledge Diverse Human Values in AI
AI developers and researchers must take the full diversity of human values seriously, including religious and political values, to avoid alienating large segments of humanity and to ensure ethical AI alignment.
13. Gain Control Perspective from Parenting
AI researchers should gain more experience with parenting to understand the inherent difficulty of controlling intelligent, sentient beings with their own agendas, realizing that micromanaging an AGI will be even harder than raising a child.