Using metacognitive therapy to break the habit of rumination (with Pia Callesen)
1. Reduce Prolonged Thinking
Focus on reducing the time spent ruminating and worrying (e.g., from 10 hours to half an hour) as this prolonged thinking is the cause of mental health issues like anxiety and depression.
2. Challenge Thought Uncontrollability
Question the belief that you cannot control or leave negative thoughts alone; recognize that while trigger thoughts pop up uncontrollably, your reaction to them is controllable.
3. Question Worry’s Usefulness
Challenge the belief that prolonged worrying and rumination are useful for problem-solving, as overthinking often doesn’t lead to solutions and can prolong negative states.
4. Practice Detached Mindfulness
When negative thoughts or feelings arise, practice ‘detached mindfulness’ by leaving them alone and not working on them, like observing fish hooks or a chewing gum without chewing.
5. Control Reaction, Not Trigger
Recognize that while trigger thoughts popping into your head are uncontrollable, your subsequent reaction or engagement with those thoughts is controllable.
6. Stay on the Meta-Level
Instead of analyzing or restructuring the content of negative thoughts, focus on the ‘meta-level’ by asking how much time you spend on them and if it’s possible to spend less.
7. Allow Thoughts to Self-Regulate
Understand that thoughts and feelings, including self-esteem, will naturally self-regulate and change over time if you don’t prolong them through rumination or excessive engagement.
8. Implement Worry Time
Set aside a specific, limited time each day (e.g., 15 minutes) for worrying or problem-solving; if worries arise outside this time, postpone them until your designated worry time.
9. Don’t List Worries
When postponing worries for designated worry time, do not write them down; trust that if they are important, your brain will remember them.
10. Stop Working on Self-Esteem
Avoid actively trying to fix or improve low self-esteem (e.g., positive affirmations, diaries), as this paradoxical effort can prolong the problem; instead, practice leaving these feelings alone.
11. Abandon Sleep Problem-Solving
If experiencing insomnia, stop actively trying to ‘solve’ your sleep problems (e.g., optimizing conditions, positive thinking); instead, practice detached mindfulness and allow sleep to self-regulate.
12. Normalize Negative Feelings
Acknowledge that feelings of being a ‘failure’ or ’not good enough’ are normal human experiences that everyone has once in a while.
13. Observe Without Engaging
Practice observing negative feelings or thoughts (like watching dirty dishes) without taking action or ‘doing’ anything with them, just letting them be present.
14. Address Worry About Worry
If experiencing generalized anxiety, challenge the belief that worrying itself is dangerous (e.g., causing physical harm), in addition to addressing uncontrollability and usefulness beliefs.
15. Embrace “Less is More”
Adopt the principle that ’less is more’ in managing mental health challenges, as reducing overthinking and problem-solving often leads to better outcomes and increased energy.