Women's Fertility & Lifestyle Debate: Dangers Of Not Having A Period! Fasting Can Backfire For Women

Oct 16, 2025
Overview

This episode features four female health experts discussing critical issues in women's health, including irregular menstrual cycles, PCOS, endometriosis, fertility, and menopause. They highlight the historical underfunding and bias in women's health research, emphasizing the physiological differences between sexes and offering actionable lifestyle and medical insights for optimal well-being across a woman's lifespan.

At a Glance
25 Insights
3h 34m Duration
18 Topics
8 Concepts

Deep Dive Analysis

Introduction to the Female Health Roundtable

The Critical Need for Women's Health Research

Physiological Differences Between Men and Women

Systemic Bias and Misunderstanding of Women's Pain

Understanding Hormones and the Menstrual Cycle

Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS): Causes and Management

Importance of a Regular Period and Anemia in Women

Endometriosis: Diagnosis, Impact, and Emerging Treatments

Impact of Birth Control on Hormones and Long-Term Health

Personal Reflections on Past Health Choices and Advice for Daughters

Contraception Options and Their Broader Health Implications

Managing Hormonal Mood Swings and Cycle Tracking

Fertility Non-Negotiables and Egg Count by Age

Egg Freezing, IVF, and Pregnancy Loss

Perimenopause: Understanding the Transition and Symptoms

Menopause, Hormone Replacement Therapy, and Quality of Life

Sex, Relationships, and Vaginal Health in Menopause

Empowering Women to Advocate for Their Health

Hormones

Hormones are the body's communication system, sending messengers to dictate actions. They are dynamic, constantly fluctuating in response to multiple stimuli, making them hard to interpret with a single test.

Follicular Phase

This is the first half of the menstrual cycle, characterized by estrogen dominance. During this phase, the brain sends FSH to grow an egg within a follicle, which produces estradiol, the primary estrogen in the body.

Luteal Phase

This is the second half of the menstrual cycle, occurring after ovulation, when both estrogen and progesterone are present. Progesterone, made by the corpus luteum, prepares the body for potential pregnancy, changing physiology at a cellular level.

Insulin Resistance

This occurs when cells become less responsive to insulin, requiring higher insulin signals to move glucose from the bloodstream into cells. It is inflammatory and impacts metabolic and hormonal health, often seen in conditions like PCOS.

Endometriosis

An inflammatory and autoimmune condition where endometrial-like tissue grows outside the uterus, creating an inflammatory response. It causes extensive organ scarring and anatomical distortion, often leading to severe pain and infertility.

Perimenopause

The transition period before menopause, lasting 7-10 years, where egg levels decline, and the ovaries respond unpredictably to brain signals. This leads to hormone fluctuations, often causing symptoms like sleep disruptions, mental health changes, and cognitive issues, even with regular periods.

Menopause

Defined medically as one year after the final menstrual period, signifying ovarian failure where the ovaries no longer produce eggs or hormones. This results in a state of low estrogen, impacting brain, bone, heart, blood vessels, and vaginal health.

Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause

A condition where the vagina and external soft tissues atrophy due to waning estrogen levels during perimenopause and menopause. This can cause dryness and pain during sex, and is treatable with local estrogen therapy.

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Why is women's health often misunderstood and under-researched?

Women's health is under-researched because historically, medicine and science were designed around male physiology, with women often excluded from studies until 1993. This led to a generalization of male data to women, despite fundamental physiological differences down to the cellular level.

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What is a 'normal' menstrual period?

A normal period is regular and predictable, typically occurring every 25-35 days, with a flow that doesn't cause significant stress or interfere with daily activities. Any consistent change from an individual's normal baseline, whether heavier or lighter, can be a warning sign.

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Should irregular menstrual cycles be a concern?

Yes, irregular menstrual cycles should be a concern because the body is meant to work like clockwork. Consistent irregularity is a significant red flag for early hormonal health issues or systemic problems, indicating something else is going on in the body.

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What is the underlying cause of Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS)?

PCOS is primarily caused by a genetic predisposition to having too many eggs that interfere with normal hormone communication, leading to metabolic issues and insulin resistance. While not caused by lifestyle choices, symptoms can be influenced by diet and other factors.

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Why does it take so long for women to get an endometriosis diagnosis?

Endometriosis diagnosis is delayed (average 7-10 years) because its primary symptom is pain, which women often downplay or are dismissed for. It's also a surgical diagnosis, meaning it requires surgery to fully see and confirm, and there's a lack of research and funding for the condition.

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How does birth control affect female hormones and long-term health?

Birth control pills shut off the brain's signals to the ovaries, preventing ovulation and the natural production of estradiol, progesterone, and testosterone. While effective for contraception and symptom management, this suppression can impact bone health, libido, energy levels, and mental health, especially during critical developmental years.

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What is the optimal age for women to freeze their eggs if they plan to delay childbearing?

The optimal age for egg freezing is in the late 20s to early 30s. This period offers a high number of eggs with good quality, maximizing the likelihood of successful future conception, though financial resources often influence this decision.

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What is the most common cause of pregnancy loss, and is it a taboo subject?

One out of four pregnancies ends in pregnancy loss, making it a common occurrence, yet it remains largely a taboo subject. It's not always the woman's fault; 50% of infertility is due to male factors, and chronic stress is also associated with higher rates of loss.

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What is the difference between perimenopause and menopause?

Perimenopause is the 7-10 year transition period leading up to menopause, characterized by declining egg levels and unpredictable hormone fluctuations. Menopause is medically defined as one day, occurring one year after the final menstrual period, signifying complete ovarian failure and a permanent state of low estrogen.

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What are the risks of not addressing low estrogen during menopause?

Not addressing low estrogen during menopause can lead to rapidly declining bone density, increased risk of heart disease, cognitive changes, mental health issues (including a peak in suicide rates between ages 45-55), and genitourinary syndrome of menopause, which causes vaginal atrophy and pain.

1. Demand Proactive Health Advocacy

Actively seek answers and demand the same level of care for your health as you would for a child, refusing dismissal from medical professionals to ensure you receive appropriate attention and solutions.

2. Recognize Menstrual Cycle as Health Marker

Understand that a regular, predictable menstrual cycle is a vital sign of overall health; any consistent irregularity (e.g., every 4-6 weeks or unpredictable timing) should prompt medical investigation as a red flag for hormonal or systemic problems.

3. Address Infertility as a Warning

View infertility as a critical early warning sign of underlying inflammation, insulin resistance, or hormonal imbalances that, if uncorrected, can predispose you to many medical problems later in life, including heart attack and metabolic syndrome.

4. Adopt Comprehensive Lifestyle for Hormones

Implement a plant-forward, whole-foods diet rich in fiber, prioritize adequate sleep, actively manage chronic stress, and engage in regular exercise to build muscle, as these are crucial for combating insulin resistance and inflammation related to PCOS and overall fertility.

5. Maximize Bone and Muscle Density Early

Focus on building strong bones and muscles between ages 15-25 through proper nutrition and strength training, as this foundational period is critical for long-term health and resilience against age-related decline.

6. Don’t Delay Perimenopause Care

Assume perimenopause after age 35 if experiencing new symptoms, and do not wait for a formal menopause diagnosis (one year without a period) to seek treatment, as delaying can lead to significant declines in brain, heart, and bone health.

7. Address Hidden Menopause Impacts

Understand that even without classic symptoms like hot flashes or brain fog, the decline in estrogen during menopause can lead to silent deterioration of bones, muscles, brain, and cardiovascular health, necessitating informed decisions about hormone optimization.

8. Consider Egg Freezing for Future

If childbearing is a life goal and you’re not ready to conceive by age 32, consider freezing eggs in your late 20s or early 30s to preserve future fertility options, as egg quality and quantity decline with age.

9. Optimize Male Fertility Through Lifestyle

Men should avoid heat exposure (hot tubs, saunas, prolonged cycling), cannabis, smoking, and excessive alcohol, and focus on a healthy diet, as sperm quality can significantly improve within 90 days with lifestyle changes.

10. Understand Birth Control’s Full Impact

Recognize that birth control pills suppress natural hormone production, affecting bone density, libido, and mental health; discuss all contraceptive options with daughters, emphasizing informed decision-making beyond just pregnancy prevention.

11. Practice Birth Control Pill Breaks

If using the birth control pill, consider taking the 7-day break from active pills each month to allow the brain a moment of release from continuous hormonal suppression.

12. Utilize Low-Dose Estrogen for Mood

For women experiencing severe mood swings (PMDD) during the luteal phase, low-dose estrogen after ovulation can be an effective treatment without interfering with natural ovulatory function.

13. Anticipate Luteal Phase Mood Changes

Be aware that mood changes are common in the luteal phase (the second half of the menstrual cycle) due to fluctuating hormones, allowing for better self-management and partner support.

14. Challenge Wearable Device Data

Be critical of wearable device data (e.g., HRV, recovery scores) during the luteal phase, as algorithms are often male-normative and may incorrectly indicate poor recovery due to natural physiological changes caused by progesterone.

15. Seek Help for Painful Periods

Do not normalize period pain that disrupts daily activities or heavy bleeding that causes anemia; seek medical help, as these can be signs of underlying conditions like endometriosis or fibroids.

16. Aim for Optimal Iron Levels

Request ferritin levels between 60-100 ng/mL for optimal health and performance, as standard lab ’normal’ ranges are often too low and can mask iron deficiency, especially in menstruating women.

17. Consider Cold Exposure for Endometriosis

Explore cold water exposure (around 10 degrees Celsius for 10 minutes, 10-14 days before your period for 3-4 months) as a method to dampen inflammation and reduce endometriosis symptoms.

18. Use Vaginal Estrogen for GSM

Understand that vaginal dryness and painful sex during perimenopause or menopause are often due to low estrogen affecting tissue elasticity, and local vaginal estrogen (not systemic) can effectively treat these symptoms and prevent UTIs.

19. Demand Employer Grace and Flexibility

Employers should offer grace, support, and flexibility (e.g., emergency childcare, flexible hours) to women navigating pregnancy, postpartum, or family illness, as this fosters loyalty and improves productivity.

20. Prioritize Eating Breakfast for Hormones

Avoid prolonged fasting with just coffee, as it elevates cortisol and ghrelin, leading to increased cravings for simple carbohydrates, reduced incidental movement, and poorer sleep, all of which negatively impact circadian rhythm and hormone pulses.

21. Don’t Starve or Overtrain

Avoid extreme dieting or excessive exercise, as both can increase stress and hinder physiological wholeness, preventing the body from effectively addressing underlying health issues like PCOS.

22. Teenage Period Pain is Warning

Recognize that period pain severe enough to disrupt a teenager’s daily life (e.g., missing school) is a significant red flag and a high predictive marker for conditions like endometriosis.

23. Manage Stress for Pregnancy

Chronic stress is associated with a higher rate of pregnancy loss, so actively work to decrease stress through boundaries, morning light exposure, and walks to improve fertility and IVF success rates.

24. Inform Daughters on Contraception

Provide daughters with comprehensive information about all contraceptive options, including their mechanisms and long-term implications, to enable them to make educated decisions about their reproductive health.

25. Celebrate Your Menstrual Cycle

Shift the perspective from viewing periods as a detriment to celebrating them as a sign of hormonal health and overall well-being, fostering a positive relationship with one’s body.

Women are 51% of the population. We're actually not a minority, we're the majority. And yet often our health, our health care access, the research treats us as if we're a niche product.

Dr. Natalie Crawford

Not until 1993 were women required to be represented in studies. 1993. I mean, we were all far into our lives and research by then. Isn't that a shocking... that's crazy.

Dr. Mary Claire Haver

Your body's meant to work like clockwork when it comes to your your hormones and your menstrual cycle. And yes, you can always have one abnormal month, always. But when you consistently are having irregularity, that is a sign that something else is going on.

Dr. Natalie Crawford

You cannot feel your bones crumbling until they're broken. You cannot feel that. You cannot feel your muscle going away. You cannot feel your brain starving. You can't detect microvascular disease of your heart.

Dr. Vonda Wright

I want to be like a whale where you have this seniority and and respect the wisdom. Exactly. I love this part of my life.

Dr. Stacy Sims

I want every woman to approach her midlife life, her new life, with the same vigor and the same curiosity and the same demanding of care that she would do for one of her children.

Dr. Vonda Wright

Managing PCOS Symptoms (Dr. Natalie Crawford)

Dr. Natalie Crawford
  1. Focus on gut health by eating a plant-forward diet rich in fiber, fruits, and vegetables.
  2. Avoid ultra-processed foods that cause inflammation.
  3. Prioritize sleep to fight inflammation and insulin resistance.
  4. Actively decrease chronic stress through practices like setting boundaries, morning light exposure, and walks.
  5. Engage in exercise to build and use skeletal muscle, which combats insulin resistance.

Easing Period Pain Symptoms Naturally (Dr. Stacy Sims)

Dr. Stacy Sims
  1. Engage in cold water exposure (around 10 degrees Celsius, not an ice bath) for 10 minutes.
  2. Start this routine 10-14 days before your period begins.
  3. Continue for 3-4 months to allow the immune response to become learned, reducing symptomology.

The 5 Fertility Non-Negotiables (Dr. Natalie Crawford)

Dr. Natalie Crawford
  1. Get more sleep.
  2. Actively work to decrease chronic stress.
  3. Exercise to build muscle and improve muscular health.
  4. Eat an anti-inflammatory diet, high in fiber.
  5. Work on pulling environmental toxins out of your world.

Optimizing Male Fertility (Dr. Stacy Sims)

Dr. Stacy Sims
  1. Avoid cannabis and cigarette smoking.
  2. Limit alcohol consumption.
  3. Avoid heat exposure to testicles (e.g., hot tubs, saunas).
  4. Limit high-intensity exercise and compression of testicles (e.g., prolonged cycling).
51%
Women's representation in the population Women are the majority, not a minority.
Less than 1%
Research funding for women over 40 Of $450 billion spent on research in the US.
20% more of their lives
Women living longer in poor health Compared to male counterparts, with chronic disease or mental health disorders.
1993
Year women were required to be represented in studies Before this, studies were primarily designed on male physiology.
7 to 10 years
Time to diagnose endometriosis After symptoms start, for women with endometriosis.
50%
Percentage of patients with unexplained infertility who have endometriosis Highlights the underdiagnosis of the condition.
60 to 100
Optimal ferritin level for women To be considered optimal, rather than just 'normal' by lab reference ranges.
Roughly 30%
Global prevalence of anemia in women aged 15-49 With iron deficiency being the leading cause; up to 50% in some regions.
13 million
IVF babies born worldwide Highlighting the impact of scientific advancement.
20%
Monthly chance of pregnancy at age 30 With unprotected intercourse and regular periods (fecundability).
5%
Monthly chance of pregnancy at age 38 Drops significantly with age due to egg quality decline.
3%
Monthly chance of pregnancy at age 40 Further decline in fecundability.
40%
Increase in mental health changes during perimenopause Across the perimenopause transition.
51 to 52
Average age of menopause Ranges from 45 to 55 for full menopause.
6 times higher
Likelihood of early menopause if first-degree relative had it at 46 or sooner Highlights the genetic predisposition.
4%
Percentage of eligible women utilizing FDA-approved hormone optimization In the US, as of 2023, excluding compounding.