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1. Redefine Identity as Present Action
Understand that your identity is not a fixed essence but is defined by what you do in the present moment; change who you are by altering your actions, memories, or sensory present (e.g., through movement or mindfulness).
2. Reframe Trauma and Arousal
Recognize that trauma is a meaning you apply to past events in the present, and high arousal states (like anxiety) can be reframed as determination; practice experiencing these states differently to change your actions and experience.
3. Prioritize Body Budget Management
Understand that your brain’s primary job is regulating your body’s metabolism (body budgeting); managing this budget is crucial for overall well-being and impacts everything from mood to learning.
4. Cultivate New Experiences Deliberately
To change future automatic predictions and behaviors, deliberately expose yourself to new ideas, people, and experiences, practicing them like a skill so they become new, automatic predictions.
5. Design Your Schedule for Body Budget
Prioritize your body budget by designing your calendar to support metabolic regulation, such as avoiding early meetings to allow for natural wake-up times and full recharge.
6. Prioritize Sleep, Hydration, Exercise
Recognize that sleep, hydration, and exercise are the biggest predictors of work productivity and overall well-being, making them fundamental priorities for managing your body budget.
7. Provide Empathetic Social Support
Offer empathetic listening and social support to loved ones, especially when they are distressed, as humans are social animals and this helps regulate their nervous systems and makes them feel heard and understood.
8. Implement Change with Baby Steps
When making significant life changes, start with small, deliberate ‘baby steps’ and schedule new behaviors, as forcing yourself to practice new routines helps them become automatic.
9. Use Words Responsibly
Recognize the profound metabolic and physiological impact your words have on others, regulating their nervous systems for better or worse, and therefore use them with responsibility.
10. Engage in Varied, Challenging Exercise
Incorporate challenging, varied exercise (like interval training or reformer Pilates) to intentionally disrupt your metabolic balance, allowing your brain to learn to regain equilibrium and improve physical system resilience.
11. Prevent Chronic Pain with Prediction Error
After injury or surgery, deliberately expose yourself to prediction error (novel, non-painful sensations) to help your brain update its predictions and prevent the development of chronic pain.
12. Limit Social Media to Preserve Agency
Reduce engagement with social media to minimize pernicious uncertainty and avoid passively being led or influenced, thereby preserving your agency and control over your predictions and experiences.
13. Be a Discerning Content Consumer
Actively choose what content you consume and be willing to disengage from unhelpful or harmful information, as this influences the automatic predictions your brain will use later.
14. Implement Screen Curfew for Sleep
Establish a strict screen curfew (e.g., no screens after 7-8 PM) to avoid disrupting your circadian rhythm, promote regular sleep cycles, and improve your body budget.
15. Prioritize Nutritious, Whole Foods
Consistently consume nutritious, whole foods over processed ‘pseudo food’ to support your body’s metabolic budget and overall well-being.
16. Supplement for Metabolic Support
Consider supplementing with high omega-3s and low omega-6s, and potentially a daily baby aspirin (on a full stomach), with doctor’s permission, to reduce systemic inflammation and support your body budget.
17. Establish Pre-Bedtime Connection Rituals
Create a consistent pre-bedtime ritual involving social connection (e.g., reading together, talking) to foster emotional regulation and social support, which are crucial for nervous system well-being.
18. Ask Permission to Nag Effectively
When needing to deliver unwanted advice or criticism, ask for permission first, acknowledging it’s your need, which can increase receptiveness and improve communication with adolescents or adults.
19. Reframe Distress as Body Budget
When feeling distressed, consider it primarily a body budgeting problem rather than a personal or external failing, as this shifts your focus to managing your metabolic resources.
20. Minimize Social Stress for Metabolism
Be aware that social stress significantly impacts your metabolic efficiency, making your body process food less effectively; reducing such stress can improve your body budget.
21. Differentiate Good vs. Bad Stress
Understand that ‘good stress’ (planned, replenished effort) is necessary, while ‘bad stress’ (chronic, unreplenished) is detrimental; manage your stress by planning and ensuring recovery.
22. Limit Alcohol for Prediction Accuracy
Be mindful that alcohol can make your brain’s predictions sloppier and hinder its ability to learn from prediction error, potentially leading to poorly calibrated behaviors and future body budgeting difficulties.
23. Contextualize Diagnoses, Avoid Essentializing
Understand that diagnoses like ADHD are descriptions of symptoms within a specific context, not inherent personal essences; avoid essentializing them as explanations for behavior, and instead consider the context.