The Joy of Star Trek, The Grateful Dead and Hot Sauce: The Happiness Lab Returns September 6

Overview

Dr. Laurie Santos returns with The Happiness Lab, exploring why small doses of fear, sadness, and pain can feel good, modern parenting pitfalls, and the misunderstood 'YOLO' philosophy, featuring guests like the U.S. Surgeon General and Mickey Hart.

At a Glance
5 Insights
3m 2s Duration
10 Topics

Deep Dive Analysis

Introduction to the New Season of The Happiness Lab

Exploring the Science of Wellbeing in Action

Understanding Why Small Doses of Negative Emotions Feel Good

Building Friendships Through Shared Physical Challenges

Examining Modern Parenting and the Pitfalls of Over-Parenting

Insights from the U.S. Surgeon General and Star Trek's Wesley Crusher

Re-evaluating the 'YOLO' Philosophy with Mickey Hart

Pursuing Happiness in Challenging Environments

Evidence-Based Tips and Well-Being Strategies

Reflecting on Life's Biggest Regrets

1. Avoid Over-Parenting

Avoid over-parenting your children, as it can lead to negative long-term consequences, as suggested by the speaker’s regret over a decade and a half of this behavior.

2. Embrace Courage, Full Commitment

Cultivate courage to explore new places and experiences, and commit fully to your actions, as this is presented as a valuable approach to life.

3. Actively Stack Happiness Deck

Approach the pursuit of happiness like stacking a deck of cards, actively making choices and taking actions that increase your chances of well-being.

4. Take Risks, Broaden Horizons

Take risks, broaden your horizons, and experience new cultures, especially in your early 20s, to avoid future regret over missed opportunities.

5. Children Mirror Parental Emotions

Be aware that children often look to their parents for emotional cues on how to feel in new or uncertain situations.

This isn't a stunt. You're listening to the Science of Wellbeing in Action.

Dr. Laurie Santos

I feel a little lightheaded. I feel a little loopy-goosey. I feel like I love my job.

Dr. Laurie Santos

And everyone stood around me clapping, like shouting my name, being like, you can do it. And of course, in the moment, I hated every single one of them.

Dr. Laurie Santos

Oh, my God, if I could go back, because that was the beginning of just a decade and a half of over-parenting.

Unnamed Guest

It takes courage to go where you've never been before and do what you've never done before, or do something and commit to it with everything you have.

Mickey Hart

I look at this pursuit of happiness a lot like a game of blackjack, and you get to stack the deck. You can have a deck full of six and sevens, or you can stack that deck with aces and jacks.

Unnamed Expert

My instinct was that my early 20s were the perfect moment to broaden my horizons, experience a new culture, and take a risk. Instead, I moved to Indiana. Oh man, I blew it.

Dr. Laurie Santos
eight-month-old
Age of child on a slide Used as an example in a discussion about modern parenting.
decade and a half
Duration of over-parenting A guest's reflection on their past parenting approach.
early 20s
Age range for a missed opportunity Dr. Laurie Santos' personal regret about not taking a risk.