Kunal Shah: Core Human Motivations
Indian entrepreneur and venture capitalist Kunal Shah discusses lessons from his family business, contrasting Indian and Western cultural motivations. He shares the Delta 4 framework for startup success, the importance of understanding human motivation (especially status), and strategies for decision-making, truth-seeking, and building reputation.
Deep Dive Analysis
21 Topic Outline
Lessons from Growing Up in a Business Family
Cultural Differences: India vs. Western Societies
The Concept of Standardization vs. Soulfulness
Value Creation, Social Status, and Gross Margins
Trust, Super Apps, and Societal Diversity
Indian Market Realities: Per Capita Income and Monetization
First Startup Journey and Lessons Learned
The Delta 4 Framework for Startup Success
Building a Second Startup for India's Affluent Segment
Lenses for Investment and Startup Decision-Making
The Power of Actionable Insights and Truth Seeking
The Living Room Effect and Core Human Motivations
Asian Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
Impact of Friends on Compounding Insights
Shamelessness, Conjectures, and Learning from Corrections
The Role of Identity and Pride in Manipulation
Internal vs. External Scorecards and Envy
Truth Seeking, Processing Power, and Intolerance
Wealth, Information Asymmetry, and Keeping Secrets
Decision Making: Choices, Emotions, and Long-Term Thinking
Opportunity Cost and Attracting High-Slope Individuals
7 Key Concepts
Insight
Insight is defined as the smallest unit of truth that is actionable. People who operate in the currency of insights tend to be more successful, especially in business, as it provides fundamental building blocks or first principles for creating value.
Delta 4 Framework
This framework predicts startup success by measuring the 'delta' or improvement in efficiency a product or service offers. If the efficiency score difference between an old and new method is greater than or equal to 4 (on a scale of 1-10), it leads to irreversible behavior, high user tolerance for flaws, and a 'unique brag-worthy proposition' that drives organic spread.
Living Room Effect
In collectivist societies like India, people prioritize demonstrating social status to others. This leads to significantly higher gross margins on products for public-facing areas like the living room, compared to private spaces like bedrooms, because people spend more to impress others.
Asian Maslow's Hierarchy
Unlike the Western focus on self-actualization, the Asian Maslow's hierarchy emphasizes status, belonging, respect, and community affiliation. This cultural difference dictates what people truly pay for, often leading to splurges on public displays like weddings or children's education, rather than personal comfort or convenience.
Information Asymmetry and Wealth
Wealth is viewed as stored energy, and successful individuals and companies maintain and increase it by possessing information asymmetry. The ability to keep secrets is a litmus test for an information asymmetry-seeking brain, as it allows for more efficient energy management and strategic advantage compared to others.
Envy is Hyper-Local
Humans tend to feel envy only within their immediate social network or 'local league' of people who are just above or below them in status. This means people often compare themselves to college batchmates, neighbors, or family members, rather than distant figures like Elon Musk, which can limit ambition and growth.
High-Slope Individuals
These are people with a very high 'dx by y' or growth trajectory, constantly learning and improving. Companies that succeed in the long term are those that effectively attract, retain, and orchestrate these high-slope individuals, as their presence drives innovation and prevents regression to the mean.
9 Questions Answered
Lessons include having lower shame and being hard to offend in pursuit of commercial gain, an intuitive understanding of value and gross margins, a natural need for spotting trends, and strong community benefits like low-interest loans and soft landings for business failures.
Western companies often fail to understand that the Maslow's hierarchy of needs is different in Asian societies, where value of time is not a commonly understood concept, and people prioritize social status and community over individual convenience or efficiency, leading to low ARPU despite high DAUs.
In Western societies, hourly wages teach people the value of their time, leading them to optimize for convenience and efficiency. In many Asian societies, where monthly salaries are common and hourly value is not understood, people often make poor decisions with their time, like spending hours deleting old photos instead of buying cloud storage.
In low-trust societies, there's a concentration of trust around a few high-trust entities or individuals. When these trusted entities launch new products or services, people readily adopt them due to familiarity, leading to the emergence of super apps and a high concentration of market share or revenue among a few players.
Despite a large population, India's per capita income is relatively low (around $2000 annually, dropping to $600 without the top 30 million families). Female labor force participation is very low (less than 6% of urban women have financial income), limiting economic growth and making it a 'DAU farm' for global companies rather than a high-monetization market.
A successful startup idea must be distillable into a simple, transmissible message that can be shared friend-to-friend without jargon. It should also address a core human motivation (like increasing social status) and offer a 'Delta 4' improvement in efficiency, making it an irreversible, highly tolerated, and brag-worthy proposition.
Successful entrepreneurs are essentially philosophers, constantly seeking truth because the market rewards those who understand the real underlying problems and motivations of people, not just surface-level issues. Failure to seek truth deeply leads to building products for non-existent 'rivers of motivation' and eventual business failure.
Humans are not necessarily more intolerant, but they are running out of daily processing power due to the overwhelming amount of information. This lack of capacity leads to a preference for simplified narratives, less engagement with nuances, and a higher likelihood of backing authoritarian leaders who offer clear, simple solutions.
Effective decision-making involves seeking input from 'champions' in a field (those with more choices), using emotions to detect symptoms but not to solve problems, adopting a long-term mindset, and constantly reflecting on past decisions objectively. It also helps to consider problems from multiple perspectives, like thinking 'what would X do?'
97 Actionable Insights
1. Operate in the Currency of Insights
Focus on identifying and utilizing “insights,” defined as the smallest unit of actionable truth, as this approach is linked to greater success, especially in business.
2. Distill to First Principles
Practice distilling complex ideas and wisdom down to their most fundamental, indivisible units or “first principles,” which serve as powerful building blocks for understanding and innovation.
3. Embrace Painful Truth-Seeking
Understand that the process of seeking truth can be difficult and unnatural, but cultivate an appreciation for it, as it is essential for uncovering insights that drive success.
4. Prioritize “Why” Questions
Shift your focus from “what,” “when,” and “how” questions to “why” questions, as exploring the underlying reasons for phenomena leads to greater insight and understanding.
5. Be Driven to Find Business Truth
Cultivate a relentless drive to uncover the truth about your market, customers, and product, as entrepreneurs who fail to do so risk business failure.
6. Continuously Update Truth Understanding
Recognize that “truth” (market realities, customer needs) is constantly evolving, especially in rapidly disrupting environments; continuously update your understanding to remain relevant.
7. Seek Deeper, Multi-Level Truths
Go beyond surface-level truth-seeking to uncover the underlying, deeper motivations and problems your product truly solves, as this reveals larger market opportunities and creates more enduring businesses.
8. Become a “Trader of Nuances”
Develop the rare ability to delve into nuances and connect them back to basic principles, as this skill is a powerful driver of wealth and success in a world that increasingly lacks processing power for complexity.
9. Cultivate Lower Shame & Self-Doubt
Adopt a mindset with lower shame and self-doubt, being less concerned with being mocked or having lower dignity if it leads to commercial success, as seen in successful business communities.
10. Reduce Shame of Business Failure
Adopt a mindset where business failure is viewed as a natural part of the entrepreneurial process, reducing the shame attached to it and encouraging repeated attempts.
11. Embrace Significant Risk-Taking
Cultivate a comfort level with risking significant portions (30-40%) of one’s reputation, wealth, and health, as this willingness to take substantial risks is often a driver of greater advancement.
12. Be Willing to Look Like an Idiot
Embrace the willingness to appear foolish or ignorant in the short term, as this openness to vulnerability can lead to significant long-term advantages and learning.
13. Be Shameless in Conjectures
Cultivate shamelessness by publicly proposing random conjectures or hypotheses without fear of judgment; this invites feedback and corrections, which can sharpen insights and connect further dots.
14. Shed Public Identity to Avoid Manipulation
Consider shedding public markers of identity (e.g., social media bios, profile pictures, even names) to become less susceptible to manipulation and external triggers.
15. Be Wary of Public Pride
Recognize that publicly declared sources of pride (e.g., “proud father,” “proud alum”) can serve as “handles” for others to manipulate you by appealing to your social identity.
16. Avoid Being a “Fan”
Recognize that a strong need to be a “fan” or to have “favorites” can make one easily offended; cultivate a more neutral stance to reduce susceptibility to emotional triggers.
17. Cultivate Internal Locus of Control
Develop an internal locus of control for happiness and pride, avoiding reliance on external validation (likes, applause), as optimizing for others’ metrics hinders the development of inner substance.
18. Benchmark Against Past Self
Focus on continuous self-improvement by benchmarking your current self against your past self (e.g., six months ago), rather than comparing yourself to others.
19. Constantly Upgrade Your Social Network
Regularly change and upgrade your social network to include people with higher ambitions and goals, as envy and comparison are “hyper local” and influence your drive within your immediate circle.
20. Accept Outgrowing People for Growth
Understand and accept that personal growth often necessitates outgrowing certain relationships or social circles, as this is a natural “price” of continuous development.
21. Copy Tactics, Ignore Macro Results
To improve, focus on copying specific tactics and processes from successful individuals at the next level, rather than comparing yourself to their overall results, which can lead to unhappiness.
22. Seek Next-Level Mentors
When seeking to imitate or learn, find mentors or role models who have recently achieved the “next level” of success in your specific domain, as their tactics are more likely to be relevant and actionable than those of distant, highly accomplished figures.
23. Study Philosophy for Truth-Seeking
Engage with philosophy to develop critical thinking skills, learn how to seek truth, and cultivate a habit of questioning established knowledge and beliefs.
24. Practice “Why-Fi” Questioning
Implement a daily “Why-Fi” practice: ask or propose a “why” question (e.g., “Why is the sky blue?”) and then research and present the answer the next day, fostering deeper insight and maturity.
25. Understand Core Human Motivations
Recognize that fundamental human motivations revolve around improving social status, mating success, and the success of one’s offspring, as these drives underpin many consumer behaviors across cultures.
26. Identify Core Motivations by Extreme Sacrifice
To identify true, unchanging core human motivations, consider what people would be willing to sacrifice a significant portion (e.g., half their net worth) for, as these represent deep-seated desires.
27. Understand What People Pay For
Cultivate a natural and intuitive understanding of what constitutes value in products and services, and precisely what motivates people to pay for them, often by breaking things down to unit economics.
28. Identify True Emotional Motivations
Go beyond functional utility to uncover the deep-seated emotional motivations (e.g., status, signaling, belonging) that truly drive people to use or buy a product, as this understanding is crucial for effective product design and marketing.
29. Test Willingness to Pay
Validate the commercial viability of your product by asking if real people (e.g., family members, a CFO) would genuinely pay for it, moving beyond theoretical market assumptions.
30. Seek Non-Obvious “Aha!” Insights
Look for insights that are not immediately obvious but, once articulated, create a clear “Aha!” moment of understanding and resonance, as these often form the basis of successful ventures.
31. Target Specific Motivation Buttons
Identify and target specific, high-motivation aspects of a broader service (e.g., “living room renovation” instead of “home renovation”) to align with consumer desires and unlock significant revenue.
32. Build for Social Status Elevation
Design products and services that offer users a perceived increase in social status, as these offerings command higher gross margins compared to utility-focused products that do not enhance status.
33. Focus on Vanity & Status for Margins
When seeking high gross margins, prioritize creating products or services that appeal to vanity or offer a chance to increase social status, as these motivations drive significant consumer spending.
34. Offer Personalized Products
Create and sell personalized products or services, as people are often willing to pay a significant premium for items that feel uniquely made for them or for gifting.
35. Create Products for Higher Status
Develop products or services that allow people to differentiate themselves and achieve a superior social status, as consumers are often willing to pay significantly more for such offerings.
36. Artificially Create Scarcity
Strategically limit the supply of a product or service, even if not inherently scarce, to create artificial demand and justify a higher price point.
37. Offer Free Utility, Monetize Vanity
Consider offering core utility services for free to attract users, then monetize through cross-selling high-gross-margin services that appeal to vanity, social status, or other emotional motivations.
38. SaaS: Free Tools, Cross-Sell Services
For SaaS businesses, provide core tools for free to acquire users, then generate revenue by cross-selling value-added services like lending, advanced technology, or other high-margin offerings.
39. Prioritize Market Over Founder Skill
Focus intensely on identifying and entering markets with strong tailwinds, as a good market can lead to success even for a mediocre founder, while a bad market can doom even the best founder.
40. Find Motivation Rivers Before Building
Identify existing strong human motivations (“rivers of motivation”) first, then build solutions (“dams”) to tap into them, rather than building a solution and hoping a need emerges.
41. Build “Delta 4” Products
Aim to create products or services that offer a “Delta 4” efficiency improvement (a score of 4 or more on a 10-point scale compared to old methods), leading to irreversible user behavior, high tolerance for flaws, and a “unique brag-worthy proposition” that encourages organic spread.
42. Start Simple, Expand Later
Begin by offering a simple, focused solution (“a knife”) that addresses a clear consumer need, rather than building an overly complex, multi-functional product (“a Swiss Army knife”) that confuses users and lacks a clear entry point.
43. Envision Path to Large-Scale Impact
When developing an idea, actively envision and articulate how it can scale from its current state into a very large company or impact, rather than getting stuck on immediate functionalities.
44. Prioritize Joy in Building
Choose to actively build and create, even if passive activities like investing might offer a higher return on time, if the act of building brings significantly more personal joy and fulfillment.
45. Cultivate Ability to Keep Secrets
Develop the discipline to keep secrets, as this ability is a strong indicator of an “information asymmetry seeking brain” and is often observed in wealthy individuals who can manage and store valuable information.
46. Actively Seek Information Asymmetry
Understand that actively seeking and leveraging information asymmetry (unique knowledge or insights) is crucial for creating wealth, even though it may not come naturally to most people.
47. Consult Champions with Many Choices
When making important decisions, seek advice from “champions” in that field—individuals who consistently have many choices—as their experience with broader options often leads to superior decision-making.
48. Define Success by Increasing Choices
Measure success not just by outcomes, but by the expansion of your available choices within a given field, as having more options generally correlates with better decision-making and overall success.
49. Use Emotions for Detection, Not Decisions
Leverage emotions as a valuable tool for detecting when something is “off” or identifying symptoms of a problem, but avoid using emotions to make decisions or solve problems, as this often leads to poor outcomes.
50. Adopt Long-Term Mindset
Cultivate a long-term mindset across all aspects of life, as virtually all bad behaviors, poor decisions, and ethical lapses stem from short-term thinking.
51. Apply Long-Term Thinking to Relationships
Extend long-term thinking to all relationships, envisioning them as lasting for decades; this perspective naturally eliminates incentives for short-term exploitative or poor behaviors.
52. Build Reputation Slowly, Guard Fiercely
Understand that reputation is built slowly, like depositing a dollar a day, but can be destroyed almost instantly; therefore, cultivate it patiently and protect it diligently, as it cannot be “hacked.”
53. Build Substance Before Quick Gains
Prioritize building foundational substance, skills, and resilience before pursuing rapid wealth or success, as quick gains without the underlying “muscle” often lead to quick losses or inability to sustain success.
54. Objectively Evaluate Past Decisions
Continuously and objectively evaluate past decisions, reflecting on them without emotional bias to refine your decision-making “algorithm” over time, even if not formally journaling.
55. Use “What Would X Do?” Framework
Employ the “What Would X Do?” framework (e.g., “What would Steve Jobs do?”) to gain different perspectives, challenge your own biases, and make better decisions by simulating the thought processes of respected figures.
56. Read Biographies for Decision Frameworks
Read autobiographies and biographies with the specific goal of internalizing the decision-making frameworks and thought processes of successful individuals, enabling you to apply “What Would X Do?” effectively.
57. Shift Frame of Reference for Blind Spots
Actively practice shifting your frame of reference by trying to see problems through different lenses or other people’s eyes, as this is the most effective way to reveal blind spots, which are the root cause of poor decisions.
58. Cultivate Multiple Thinking Personalities
Develop the ability to mentally adopt “multiple personalities” or perspectives when analyzing situations, allowing you to view problems from various angles and identify blind spots that a single viewpoint would miss.
59. Read & Travel Widely for Diverse Lenses
Engage in extensive reading and travel to acquire a multitude of “lenses” or frames of reference, which reduces surprise, broadens understanding, and makes you less intolerant by exposing you to alternate realities.
60. Make Public Predictions for Feedback
Publicly state your predictions or conjectures; this “crowdsources” your decision-making journal, as others will remind you when you are right and correct you when you are wrong, leading to more efficient learning and self-correction.
61. Optimize “Market Cap Per Hour”
Regularly calculate your “value per hour” and assess whether your current activities are generating a higher “market cap per hour” than your baseline, using this metric to optimize your time and efforts.
62. Prioritize “Experiences Per Year”
Focus on accumulating diverse and intense “experiences per year” (high slope learning) rather than merely “years of experience,” as the former will be a more valued metric for future hiring and growth.
63. Maintain High-Slope Individual Concentration
To build and sustain a high-performing company, actively maintain a high concentration of “high-slope” individuals (those with rapid learning and growth trajectories), as their ambition and drive push the organization forward.
64. Cultivate High-Performer Environment
Foster a work environment where high performers are surrounded by other high performers, as this raises standards, encourages engagement, and prevents top talent from leaving due to frustration with mediocrity.
65. Obsess Over Revenue Per Employee
Focus on maximizing “revenue per employee” as a key metric, as companies that do so naturally cultivate and retain a higher density of top talent.
66. Attract & Retain Global High-Slope Talent
Recognize that “high-slope” individuals (rapid learners, high performers) are a global asset; policies that restrict their movement will cause them to flow to other environments, benefiting those countries in the long run.
67. Quickly Recognize High-Slope Talent
Cultivate the skill to quickly identify other “high-slope” individuals (rapid learners, high performers) within short interactions, as this ability is key for building high-performing teams and networks.
68. Actively Spot & Share New Trends
Regularly seek out and share information about new trends, aiming to enter emerging markets where competition is lower to capture value early.
69. Seek Non-Competitive Niches
Actively search for business opportunities and markets where competition is minimal, rather than directly confronting existing competitors, to achieve success.
70. Prioritize Commercial Win Over Status
Be willing to reduce perceived social status or dignity if it ensures a commercial victory, focusing on the financial upside of a deal.
71. Support Community with Low-Interest Capital
Provide financial support, such as low-interest loans, to community members to help them start businesses, fostering collective success and offering a safety net.
72. Provide Soft Landings for Failures
Create a community support system that offers a “soft landing” for individuals whose businesses fail, allowing them to stabilize through temporary employment and then re-enter entrepreneurship without shame.
73. Learn by Teaching Exotic Subjects
Offer to teach specialized or “exotic” subjects that are not readily available, even if you need to learn them yourself beforehand, as teaching is an effective way to master new skills while also generating income.
74. Offer Incentives for Platform Adoption
Provide tangible incentives (e.g., vouchers) for users to adopt your platform, especially when it offers a more efficient alternative to existing methods, to drive rapid user acquisition.
75. Differentiate Through Superior Service
In markets with artificial price controls (e.g., MRP), differentiate your offerings and cater to specific segments by providing exceptional service and creating a distinct, premium experience.
76. Target Affluent Customer Segments
In large, diverse markets with significant income disparities, focus on serving the most affluent and monetizable customer segments who understand and value time, rather than chasing a broad, unmonetizable mass market.
77. Create Identity-Based Frictionless Solutions
Develop services that provide a distinct identity or recognition for affluent individuals, reducing friction in their interactions and transactions, especially in systems where differentiation is otherwise difficult.
78. Leverage Trust in Low-Trust Societies
In low-trust societies, identify or become a highly trusted entity, as this allows for successful expansion into diverse product categories, with consumers readily adopting new offerings due to existing trust.
79. Cross-Sell in Shallow Markets
In markets with low per capita income or limited depth (e.g., many Asian markets), avoid narrow focus; instead, cross-sell a wider range of products and services to the same customer base to achieve scale.
80. Offer Freebies for User Acquisition
In markets where the value of time is not understood and monetization is difficult (e.g., India), offer free services to gain a large user base (DAUs), but temper revenue expectations (ARPU).
81. Understand Cultural Maslow’s Hierarchy
Recognize that Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and consumer motivations for spending can vary significantly across cultures (e.g., Asian vs. Western societies), and tailor product offerings and marketing accordingly.
82. Avoid Blindly Copying Models; Embrace Ignorance
Do not blindly copy business models from different cultural contexts (e.g., Western models in Asian markets); sometimes, a lack of preconceived notions or industry jargon can be a “superpower” for original idea generation.
83. Study Humanities & Human Motivation
Supplement technical skills (STEM) with studies in humanities and human motivation (e.g., philosophy, understanding social dynamics) to better identify what problems to solve and what products to build.
84. Test Understanding by Changing Language
To truly assess a founder’s understanding of their product, ask them to explain it in a different language or at a different level of abstraction; genuine understanding transcends specific phrasing.
85. Distill Idea into Transmissible Message
Practice explaining your product or service in simple, jargon-free terms, as if recommending it to a friend over dinner; if it cannot be easily transmitted, it will struggle to spread organically.
86. Understand Your Value Per Hour
Calculate and understand your personal value per hour to make better decisions about how you spend your time, especially regarding convenience products and services.
87. Embrace Inefficiency for Soulfulness
Recognize that truly soulful and memorable experiences, such as vacations or food, are often inherently inefficient; embrace this inefficiency rather than constantly seeking optimization for these aspects of life.
88. Avoid Standardization for Soulfulness
To create truly soulful, memorable, or emotionally arousing experiences, resist the urge to standardize, as standardization often diminishes the unique and inefficient qualities that make something soulful.
89. Create Non-Standardized Offerings
To build something resilient and hard to destroy, focus on creating non-standardized products or services, as these are inherently more difficult for competitors to replicate or disrupt.
90. Avoid Time-Saving in Time-Insensitive Cultures
In cultures where the value of time is not intuitively understood, avoid building businesses solely around convenience or time-saving, as these offerings will struggle to monetize effectively.
91. Avoid Efficiency Software in Efficiency-Averse Cultures
In cultures where efficiency is not a core value or businesses prefer hiring more people over investing in software, avoid selling SaaS products that primarily offer efficiency gains.
92. Understand Children-as-Assets Cultural View
Recognize that in some cultures (e.g., Asian societies), children are viewed as long-term assets and investments, with an expectation of future care for parents, influencing family spending and saving patterns.
93. Avoid Short-Term “Scammy” Business Models
Be wary of business models that optimize for short-term gains at the expense of customer satisfaction, especially in environments with no repeat customers (e.g., tourist traps), as these often indicate “scammy” practices.
94. Conserve Processing Power for Nuance
Be mindful of how much “processing power” (mental energy) you expend daily, especially on attention-hijacking media, as a depleted capacity can lead to intolerance and an inability to engage with nuance.
95. Research Origin Stories
Cultivate a habit of researching the origin stories and historical context of various phenomena, as this often reveals underlying first principles and recurring patterns.
96. Convert Shame to Pride for Behavioral Change
To normalize or change behavior around something previously considered shameful, reframe it as a source of pride, as this psychological shift can alter perceptions and actions.
97. Curate Diverse, Dot-Connecting Friends
Actively seek out and spend time with a diverse group of friends from different domains and fields, as this broadens your perspective and makes the process of collecting and connecting insights more efficient, accelerating personal compounding.
9 Key Quotes
I believe that insight is the smallest unit of truth that is actionable. And therefore, people who operate in the currency of insights tend to be generally more successful, at least in business.
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You cannot develop substance, net worth, wealth, experience unless you're constantly willing to risk your reputation.
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Standardizing is the enemy of soulfulness.
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By design gross margins exist when you allow human beings to jump their social status and gross margins disappear when you do not help them increase their social status.
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Focus is almost a curse in Asian markets.
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Vocabulary is a unique curse that we suffer. Every word we know, if you don't know these words, we'll probably not suffer them.
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The price of growth is outgrowing people.
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All bad behavior is rooted in short-term thinking.
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Reputation is a bank account where you can only deposit a dollar a day but every time the withdrawal is almost nearly complete.
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1 Protocols
Why-Fi School for Kids
Kunal Shah- Every day at dinner, ask kids a 'why' question (or let them propose one).
- The next day, they come up with the answer to the 'why' question.
- Repeat this process consistently for one to two years.