BITESIZE | 3 Simple Steps to Make New Habits Stick | Charles Duhigg #477

Sep 19, 2024 Episode Page ↗
Overview

This episode features Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize winner and author of "The Power of Habit," discussing why new behaviors often fail to become lasting habits. He shares practical tips on how to build better habits by understanding and manipulating the habit loop's cues and rewards.

At a Glance
10 Insights
21m 28s Duration
9 Topics
5 Concepts

Deep Dive Analysis

Introduction to Charles Duhigg and Habit Formation

Understanding the Habit Loop: Cue, Behavior, Reward

The Evolving Nature of Rewards in Habit Formation

Applying the Habit Loop to Journaling and Morning Routines

Strategy for Changing Habits: Replacing Behaviors

Experimenting with Rewards to Change a Coffee Habit

The Three Fs Exercise for Addressing Emotional Hunger

The Role of Awareness in Modifying Habits

Neurological Basis of Habits and Brain Function

Habit Loop

Every habit consists of three components: a cue (a trigger for automatic behavior), the behavior itself, and a reward. Understanding and managing these components is crucial for forming or changing habits.

Cue (Habit Trigger)

A trigger that initiates an automatic behavior. Cues typically fall into one of five categories: a specific time of day, a particular place, certain other people, a distinct emotion, or a preceding ritualized behavior.

Reward (in Habits)

The positive outcome or sensation that reinforces a behavior, which can be a conscious feeling or an unconscious brain chemistry release. Rewards can be intrinsic (feeling good) or extrinsic (a treat), and their effectiveness can change over time, requiring adjustment to sustain a habit.

Changing a Habit

Rather than 'breaking' a habit, which is impossible as neural pathways persist, the focus should be on changing it. This involves finding a new behavior that responds to the old cues and delivers a similar reward to the one the old habit provided.

Basal Ganglia

A part of the brain, present in all animals, responsible for creating habits. Its function is to make behaviors automatic, allowing the brain to 'power down' during habitual actions and free up cognitive resources for other complex thoughts and tasks.

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Why do people struggle to make new desired behaviors stick long-term?

People often focus too much on the behavior itself and not enough on how the cues and rewards need to change and evolve as their relationship to the behavior deepens.

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What are the components of every habit?

Every habit consists of a cue (a trigger), the behavior itself, and a reward.

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How can you identify the cue for a habit?

Cues typically fall into one of five categories: a specific time of day, a particular place, certain other people, a distinct emotion, or a preceding ritualized behavior.

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What happens to rewards over time when forming a new habit?

Initially, the novelty of a new behavior can be a reward, or people might consciously give themselves extrinsic rewards. However, over time, these rewards may stop being rewarding or be forgotten, leading to the habit crumbling if not supplemented or replaced.

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How should one approach changing an existing habit?

Instead of trying to 'break' a habit, which is difficult because neural pathways persist, one should focus on changing it by finding a new behavior that responds to the old cues and delivers a similar reward.

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What is the significance of awareness in habit change?

Simply being aware of the cues and rewards driving a habit, such as recognizing emotional hunger as a cue for sugar intake, can significantly change one's relationship to that behavior and make change easier.

1. Understand Habit Loop

Learn that every habit consists of a cue (trigger), the behavior itself, and a reward, as this fundamental understanding is crucial for effectively building or changing any habit.

2. Change Habits by Substitution

Instead of trying to ‘break’ a habit, focus on changing it by finding a new, desired behavior that responds to the old cues and delivers a similar reward, because neural pathways for habits cannot be extinguished, only rerouted.

3. Actively Manage Habit Rewards

Continuously pay attention to and adjust the rewards for new behaviors, supplementing them with new ones if the original rewards fade or become punishing, to ensure long-term habit adherence.

4. Adopt ‘Scientist’ Mindset

When attempting habit change, view your efforts as experiments rather than potential failures, learning from what doesn’t work to understand the true reward driving the behavior and reduce self-punishment.

5. Implement ‘Three Fs’ Exercise

When experiencing an urge for an unhealthy behavior, use the ‘Three Fs’: first, identify the underlying ‘Feeling’ (e.g., emotional hunger); second, understand ‘How Food Feeds’ that feeling; and third, ‘Find’ an alternative, healthier behavior that addresses the same underlying feeling.

6. Cultivate Self-Awareness of Cues

Make a conscious effort to identify the specific cues (triggers) for your habits, especially emotional ones, as simply being aware of these links can begin to change your relationship with the behavior.

7. Consciously Acknowledge Rewards

When you give yourself a reward for a desired behavior, consciously acknowledge and appreciate it, as deciding a reward is rewarding makes it inherently more effective and strengthens the habit loop.

8. Identify Habit Cues

Recognize that most habit cues fall into one of five categories: a specific time of day, a certain place, other people, a particular emotion, or a preceding ritualized behavior, to help pinpoint and establish triggers.

9. Design Habit-Stacked Routine

Create a sequence of desired behaviors (e.g., mindfulness, movement, journaling) linked by consistent cues and culminating in a clear reward, to leverage habit stacking and make multiple beneficial actions more likely.

10. Experiment for Alternative Rewards

When trying to change a habit, first identify the specific rewards the old habit provides (e.g., taste, warmth, buzz), then conduct experiments to find alternative behaviors or substances that replicate those specific satisfactions.

Every habit has three components. There's a cue, which is like a trigger for this automatic behavior, and then the behavior itself, and then a reward.

Charles Duhigg

You cannot extinguish a habit. The neural pathways associated with that habit still exist in your brain. What you need to do is focus on changing the habit by finding a new behavior that corresponds to the old cues and delivers something similar to the old reward.

Charles Duhigg

The whole point of doing experiments is that some of them fail and we learn from that.

Charles Duhigg

Do not underestimate the power of awareness. Simply being aware that you go to sugar when you're feeling stressed, that will start to change things.

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee

When we're in the grip of a habit, our brain actually powers down.

Charles Duhigg

Dr. Chatterjee's Morning Routine

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee
  1. Wake up in pajamas.
  2. Go downstairs and sit in the living room.
  3. Meditate for 10 minutes (mindfulness practice).
  4. Walk to the kitchen.
  5. Mindfully prepare coffee (weigh, put in French press, set timer for 5 minutes).
  6. During the 5-minute coffee brewing, do a 5-minute strength workout in the kitchen.
  7. Enjoy the coffee while journaling at the kitchen counter.

General Strategy for Changing a Habit

Charles Duhigg
  1. Identify the cue for the old habit.
  2. Identify the rewards the old habit delivers (e.g., taste, hot drink, buzz).
  3. Conduct experiments to find a new behavior that corresponds to the old cues and delivers something similar to the old reward.
  4. Pay attention to the results of these experiments, learning from both successes and failures.

The Three Fs Exercise for Emotional Eating

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee
  1. **Feel**: Next time you feel the urge for an unhealthy food (e.g., ice cream), pause and ask yourself what you're *really* feeling (physical or emotional hunger).
  2. **Feed**: Once you know the feeling, ask how the food feeds that feeling (e.g., ice cream temporarily reduces stress).
  3. **Find**: Now that you know the feeling and how food feeds it, find an alternative behavior to feed that same feeling (e.g., yoga for stress, phoning a friend for loneliness).
40% to 45%
Percentage of daily actions that are habits We often perceive these as decisions, but they are automatic behaviors.