BITESIZE | How to Discover Your True Self | Dr Zach Bush #371

Jun 15, 2023 Episode Page ↗
Overview

Dr. Zach Bush, a former conventional medical doctor, discusses how ego, individualism, and competition are not truly human traits. He explains how a practice of solitude can help us reconnect with our true nature and find health by feeling and processing emotions.

At a Glance
6 Insights
15m 30s Duration
8 Topics
4 Concepts

Deep Dive Analysis

Dr. Chatterjee's Journey from Competition to Cooperation

Microbiome's Cooperative Nature and the Origin of Human Ego

How Separateness from Nature Creates Scarcity and Defensiveness

Colonialism, Ownership, and the Illusion of Strength in Fences

Ego's Role in Driving Competition and the Feeling of 'Not Enough'

The Importance of a Daily Solitude Practice

Distinguishing Solitude from Loneliness and its Nurturing Power

Allowing Oneself to Feel Uncomfortable Emotions for Healing

Human Ego and Competition

The human ego emerged from the belief of being separate from nature, which immediately created a sense of scarcity and defensiveness. This fear paradigm strengthens the ego, and its primary behavior is competition.

Separateness and Scarcity

The moment humans perceive themselves as separate from nature, it creates an immediate scarcity event. This perceived scarcity then triggers defensive behaviors and strengthens the egoic mind, leading to competition.

Cooperation (Microbiome Perspective)

The microbiome functions as a whole, where diverse bacteria understand their roles and cooperate. When there is enough biodiversity, true competition does not occur; instead, all components work synergistically.

Solitude vs. Loneliness

Solitude is a practice of listening to one's inner self or 'soul' to find peaceful core truths and diffuse external attitudes, nurturing one's true identity. Loneliness, conversely, is an egoic belief system rooted in scarcity and disconnect, arising from the perception of being separate from everything.

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Why do humans engage in competition?

Competition arises from the human ego, which developed when people began to perceive themselves as separate from nature, leading to a belief in scarcity and a need for defensiveness.

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How does the concept of ownership relate to human connection and strength?

The act of claiming ownership and building fences, as seen in colonialism, creates an illusion of power but actually disconnects individuals from the larger ecosystem, making them weaker and more dependent.

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What drives the constant need to acquire more or achieve more?

The egoic mind constantly tells individuals they are 'not enough,' driving a competitive effort to fill perceived gaps through acquiring possessions, awards, or consuming content.

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What is the benefit of practicing solitude?

Solitude allows individuals to listen to their inner self, find peaceful core truths, diffuse negative attitudes, and reconnect with their unified nature, nurturing them at a deep level beyond external relationships.

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How can one truly 'feel better' in life?

To feel better, one must be willing to 'feel more' by allowing and acknowledging uncomfortable emotions like pain, anxiety, or depression, as these feelings are real and contain the solution to their root cause.

1. Daily Solitude & Self-Awareness

Engage in a daily practice of solitude, sitting with yourself to listen to your innermost thoughts, emotions, and feelings. This allows you to understand your true self, process uncomfortable experiences, and prevent compensating for a lack of self-awareness.

2. Allow Yourself to Feel More

To genuinely feel better, be willing to feel more by allowing yourself to fully experience all emotions, including discomfort, pain, anxiety, or depression. Trust that the solution and deeper truth lie within these feelings once they are acknowledged and processed.

3. Cultivate Love, Reduce Competition

Reduce competitiveness by filling emotional voids in your heart with love, community, family, and nature. This internal fulfillment can eliminate the need for competitive behaviors driven by a sense of scarcity or not being “enough.”

4. Prioritize Cooperation Over Competition

Prioritize cooperation over competition, recognizing that complex systems, like multi-cellular organisms and societies, thrive through collaborative efforts rather than individualistic struggle. This approach aligns with how the microbiome functions, where biodiversity leads to cooperation rather than competition.

5. Reconnect with Nature

Actively reconnect with nature to overcome the defensiveness, fear, and sense of separation fostered by industrialized behaviors. This practice helps you remember your connection to the planet and fosters a synergistic, curious approach to life.

6. Reject Ownership Mentality

Challenge the belief in ownership of land or resources, instead viewing oneself as a cooperative and interconnected part of the ecosystem. This shift in perspective helps avoid creating scarcity and disconnection, which are often consequences of an egoic mindset.

Competition did not occur until the human ego was created. And the human ego became necessary the moment we thought we were separate and against nature.

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The moment you put yourself in a 20-foot fenced-in area... you've lost connection to the entire planet. And you've said, I own this little thing. And for a moment you think, well, that's super powerful. And you just became the weakest organism on the planet the moment you put up the fence because you disconnected yourself from the whole.

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In the egoic world of fences and defensiveness and competition, you inherently know that you are not enough. And the ego is telling you that every day.

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Instead of attitude, let's do solitude.

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If we're going to feel better, we're going to allow ourselves to feel all of that and then look for the root cause.

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Everything you are feeling right now is the only real thing happening to you. Everything else is external falsehoods. It's a game show.

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The Practice of Feeling More to Feel Better

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  1. Be willing to feel more, including uncomfortable emotions like pain, anxiety, depression, or panic.
  2. Allow yourself to feel all of these emotions without suppressing them.
  3. Look for the root cause within those feelings, trusting that the solution is inside the feeling itself.
  4. Practice solitude to create enough silence to feel, trust, and respect these feelings.
  5. Acknowledge that feelings are not necessarily the ultimate reality but results of being disconnected from the universe.
  6. Allow feelings to percolate to the surface and sit with them, even if uncomfortable, until they process through.